Am I Really Good Enough?

Self-Doubt is something that every one of us deals with sooner or later.  We draw strength from those around us.  Isn’t it ironic that when we are struggling, finding community is the last thing we do.  Build a good community around yourself for the tough times, and be a leader who builds an encouraging and positive culture for the teams and communities you lead. #LeadershipDevelopment #Coaching #Training #WorkingGenius

  • The Coronavirus Pandemic might seem like a thing of the past, but its impact lingers. Many people I talk to took it in stride, but a lot of others struggled with their mental health. Personally, I found the isolation tough and had some really difficult days. I started doubting my vision: "Is my dream too big?" "Can I really do what I love and still provide for my family?"

    During those times, my wife was my rock. She encouraged me and spoke words of life and courage. It made me realize that we all doubt ourselves sometimes. That's when the importance of having a supportive community really shines.

    Think about it like this: one draft horse can pull just over 3,500 kg on its own. But put two draft horses together, and they can pull over 10,000 kg. It's amazing how much more we can accomplish with the support of others.

    When you're feeling down or doubting yourself, having a good team or community around you is crucial. With the right people encouraging you, you can achieve so much more than you would alone.

    But here's the thing: many of us hesitate to reach out when we're struggling. We feel like a burden or think we're not worthy of someone else's time. However, consider how you feel when someone asks for your help. Don't you feel valued and honored to assist? By reaching out, you're giving others the chance to be your support, which is a privilege. It helps you recover faster and feel better.

    Secondly, it's important to foster a culture of encouragement within your team. A generous, supportive environment boosts productivity, unity, and loyalty while reducing burnout and turnover. When we value and uplift each other, we can tackle bigger challenges and achieve greater results.

    Nurturing relationships goes beyond just getting things done. It's about maintaining everyone's well-being. Strong, supportive relationships help us stay whole and healthy, allowing us to overcome self-doubt and adversity together.

    So, next time you’re feeling unsure about yourself or your path, remember the power of community. Reach out, lean on your team, and encourage a culture of support and positivity. By doing so, you'll find that you can achieve far more than you ever thought possible. And in turn, you'll be helping others do the same. We're all in this together, and together, we can thrive.

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